People will get Jealous…CYNTHIA WADE!!!!!
Do you have that friend that you can tell absolutely ANYTHING to? Maybe you have a couple, I have a person who i can tell absolutely anything to. Oh and ladies, HUSBANDS DO NOT COUNT. Yes, they can be your best friends, yes you can claim to tell them everything. BUT, when you two are fighting via email or on the phone and your “person” (whom you speak with on the regular and can tell everything to) is the one you go to, and get a second opinion (if your being extra cunty for no reason, or if you are justified) before you come back at your significant other with the next round of arguments. I know there are those of you out there that keep your personal business with your spouse between you and your spouse. Let me tell you something, that’s stupid and I’ll tell you why….
A. There should always be someone you can go to, to prevent you from sticking your foot in your mouth.
B. That person is there to tell you if you are in fact in the wrong to begin with and when you should just let it go.
C. If you are a push over, that friend will also be the one to tell you to stand up for yourself.
Now of course your bestie will get annoyed at the person who done you wrong. But they will quickly get over this b/c they know you are capable of decided whom you want to spend the rest of your life with and they will support you in that decision. And, chances are they are too friends with your spouse. So spouses don’t get your panties in a bunch they won’t think bad of you after your fight, we are all grown adults here and we all understand about arguments.
Now your “person” this person is also there to tell you when they think you are being silly about self appearance, and they are not afraid to tell you how they feel about any of your friends, or you in general. Yes, all these things hurt when you are the only saying this to your “person” or your “person” is saying them to you. But in the end, you actually feel better about everything.
For example we all have those days, when you just feel like the world has turned it’s back on you, nothing is going right, and life sucks. Your friend usually gets the brunt of your mood, and they know it’s not their fault. Another typical friend might actually think you’re being a selfish asshole and not talk to you for a bit. But this friend, they take it, and yes they feel awful a little for the fact that they have to deal with your asshole mood, but mainly because they understand what you are going through. They understand you are hurting and the best way to put this is “misery LOVES company”. They stick it out, they offer advice, they leave you alone and just let you bitch, they try everything to make you feel better. They don’t feel bad if they just can’t do it because they know in the end you appreciated everything they tried to do.
This blog is to my person. No matter what personal drama I am going through you are always there. And even when you are not (life comes first after all) I know you are. and will be if I text you enough. Thank you for dealing with my crazy, and girls, yes I’m secure enough to say it; because guess what, WE ARE ALL CRAZY! and to my backups I love you all, maybe not as much as my husband, or my bestie but I do love you and thank you too for putting up with me. I don’t have a cunt tattoo for nothing now.
Good day to you!